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How to support a friend dealing with involuntary childlessness

31.03.2019

As a society we don’t often speak openly of the emotional, mental and physical impacts on infertility and involuntary childlessness on individuals, couples and families. So today, I’m inviting us to break the silence and own our stories so that we can unite as one sisterhood this Mother’s Day.

Let the Loving Disruptor in you unleash your Light

23.08.2018

Our Big Visions need us to hold them and to be the very love that they are here to manifest. Our Big Visions are love in action. If we are engaging in fear-based patterns of behaviour we will not create our business from love but from fear. If you have been feeling sucked into old negative patterns of behaviour lately you are not alone. Let’s tune in to the Loving Disruptor in us, who is fiercely committed to unleashing your Light, and call fear out.

The Arctic Tern & powerful intentions for the new moon

13.08.2018

So the New Moon in Leo on Saturday invited us to tap into our Lion’s heart and look honestly at how we’ve been going about our business. Literally!

How to find our true purpose

11.08.2018

As a mentor to heart-led entrepreneurs, I often get asked the question: how can I know what my purpose is? Having a sense of purpose and knowing what our true purpose is is not the same thing. I know. Until I came to understand that I was worthy of an abundant life being me, I ploughed my energy into causes that sought to justify my existence through worthy causes. Knowing our purpose is all about seeing ourselves and loving what we see.

Light Unleashed: The Wish Tree Academy is 2!

02.08.2018

It’s hard for me to take in, but this month, The Wish Tree Academy turns 2. It’s been 2 of the most incredible, life-changing years of my life. From a tribe of zero, we are now thousands. From a community of nil, we are now hundreds of Lightworkers, Coaches, Wellbeing facilitators, Artists, Activists, Healers of all kinds. When we let ourselves out of the prison of fear, the fear that comes from our past, we can finally be fully present. And THAT’S when the magic happens. It’s only when we are present in the now that we can align with Love, Source Energy and be the vessel we have said YES to being in the world. That’s what I did when I said yes to my heart-led business, and that is what I want for you too.

Are you serving from an overflowing cup?

26.07.2018

I often speak to wellbeing facilitators who are exhausted, don’t make time for their own rest, put their clients’ needs before their own and drastically undercharge for their services. But there is NOTHING spiritual about any of that. It’s time to get our priorities right. Almost every time I am on a call with my magnificent coach, Lisa Nichols, she reminds me of the importance of serving from an OVERFLOWING CUP. Not a full cup. An OVERFLOWING cup. To her, and now to me, that means embracing abundance in ALL forms UNAPOLOGETICALLY so we can show up fully in our service.

Nothing to prove, no one to please

25.07.2018

When we allow ourselves remember who we truly are, when we detox from our addiction to what other people may think of us, we are truly free to create a breathtaking life and bring our gifts to the world.
A life where we are aligned, congruent with our purpose, mission, and message.
A life where we have nothing to prove.
A life where we have no one to please.
To me, this is the ultimate form of autonomy -the right condition for self-government.

Resting is The Revolution

22.07.2018

The Paradigm of Separation that has controlled our every move for 3000 years, taught us to rush, push, prove, shut up and put up, ignore the messages of our bodies, the rhythms of our lives, our connection to Mother Earth, which means that one of the most powerful acts of defiance of the Patriarchy is, in fact, resting.

How to hold the Light and anticipate Miracles

12.07.2018

Are you finding it a challenge to navigate the emotional roller coaster that our journey of ascension can bring, the moment we say yes to our heart-led business? Do you anticipate a disaster instead of the best possible outcome? What if there was a way for you to hold the Light and show up lovingly for yourself through the shifts! What if it was possible for you to return to a higher vibe more quickly, and come to anticipate miracles in your heart-led business? Let’s practise Kyle Gray’s process for Holding the Light!

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We all carry - or have carried- the same fear. It’s our fear of not being enough or too much, born from separation from the Great Mother, from Love. .
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When we are fearful of not being enough or too much we have forgotten that we are Love. .
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So we come to believe instead that we are inherently flawed. This means judgement, rejection and abandonment can happen at any moment. All things which ultimately lead to being alone in the world.
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When we are children we understand that being alone in the world means we might not survive. So we learnt that not being enough or being too much means we might die. .
Our fear of death meant we grow up to fear life, hiding our true selves and making sure others were ok first. It meant we feared true connection, intimacy and commitment, because we might loose it.. We ended up rejecting what we longed for the most.. belonging. We became hunters for external validation but felt hunted and haunted to perform and perfect to avoid being cast out.
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Our separation trauma holds us back from experiencing our breathtaking life, that’s there waiting for us in every moment. It’s holding us back from embracing life and love to the fullest. From embracing our life purpose and living and serving from our true magnificent abundant selves.
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We are truly here to sing our song, dance our dance, speak our speak, write our words, make our art!..and share it. .
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And share it!
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🌟That Light within matters more than anything and it’s high time to shine it BRIGHT!
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🌟What if you didn’t have to fear being alone in the world any more? What if you could take a path to let go of what others might think and create a life and business in alignment with the true you?
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Click on the link in my bio to join Get Trued Up January 2020!
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#youarwenough #returntolove #lovebeginswithme #soulpurpose #lightworker #lightwork #healer #soulpreneur #soulpreneurs #spiritualbusiness #selflove #anitamoorjani #hayhouse

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The Hunter’s Full Moon asks us to shine a light on where in our lives we have been hunting.
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This is a full moon that in an obvious way illuminates our shadow for us: where we are running our lives from a place of fear, of lack, of “not enoughness".
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What does hunting look like?
Hunting comes in many shades, layers and sizes:
Pleasing is hunting
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Pretending things are different to what they are is hunting
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Proving is hunting
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Perfecting is hunting
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Seeking approval & external validation is hunting
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Controlling is hunting .
Manically trying to manifest things is hunting
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Saying yes when we mean no is hunting
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Allowing the "musts", "shoulds", "have-tos" & "ought-tos" run the show is hunting
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Placing other people’s needs before our own is hunting
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Hustling is hunting
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Under-charging is hunting
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Doing things from a place of obligation is hunting
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Pushing, rushing, busyness is hunting
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When we are "on the hunt" in our lives, we always need a fix - we need something outside of ourselves to complete us. .
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So we come to create a life of pressure, not pleasure.
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Where we know pressure well, we don't know pleasure other than in the form of numbing, or fleeting moments when the to-do-list is almost done - for now..
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No matter how much we try to "get" or “manifest” what we believe we desire we can’t, because the energy behind it is one of lack: we believe that we will only be enough, feel whole & happy when we have what we desire.
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What if in an instant you could choose to take a different path, to create your life from a different energy, a different place inside you?
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A place that is free from old paradigms, limiting stories & doubt.
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A place inside anchored in the real truth of who you are: your abundant self - that was always there and who will blossom into all her potential, if only you'll let her.
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👉Are you tried of Hunting?
👉Are you ready to make a different choice? .
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⛰Click on the link in my bio to learn more about "Get Trued Up" - a phenomenal journey into the truth of who you are & what you are here to serve the world with.
Applications for January 2020 now open.
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#fullmoon #youareenough #spiritjunkie

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Oct 13

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Happy Hunter's Full Moon! I believe this moon encourages us to get curious about where in our lives we have been on the hunt, and why:
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* Have we been seeking our worthiness through a worthy cause (e.g. helping others)? Being the "good girl" all in the name of our fear of not being worthy of belonging just as we are?
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* Have we been seeking approval and external validation through our work?
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* Have we been trying to control circumstances in fear of disappointment or a feeling of not being enough or having enough?
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When we are "on the hunt" in our lives, we live from a place of lack. We need something outside of ourselves to complete us.
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When we live from lack - or a feeling of not being enough just as we are - we define ourselves by our past. The limiting stories about ourselves we picked up as children, young people or in our mothers' womb spaces.
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The energy of being on the hunt does not work well in a heart-led lives & business. It leads to contraction, pushing, rushing, depletion and disappointment. .
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The good news is that we can choose again.
We can choose to define ourselves by our future.
The energy of what we are wanting to embrace.
Who we are wanting to become and be in the world.
Our breathtaking life, our most powerful and present selves.
And we can allow that energy to be here with us right now, inside of us.
We have the ability to create a powerful new path in our lives by the simple action of choosing:
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* Who can I be right now if I allow myself to be defined by my future instead of my past?
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* What stories or unhelpful mind-chatter will no longer be present when I allow myself to be defined by my future?
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* What weights or burdens will no longer exist?
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* What possibilities open up for me today by this simple act of choosing?
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#fullmoon #huntersmoon #lightworker #spiritjunkie #lifecoach #spiritualbusiness #soulpreneur #powerful #conciousness #ichooseme #powerofchoice #abundance #abundancemindset #chooselove #fullmoonritual #lifequotes #lifehacks #newchapter #beyourown

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Have you chosen yet, my darling?
Chosen what is best for you? What Lights you up? What makes you feel good, alive, joyful, peaceful..?
Chosen what your breathtaking life will look and feel like?
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Or are you still choosing pressure over pleasure? Pleasing over pausing? Are you still choosing to place other people’s needs, opinions or challenges as more important or valid? Are you going out-of-your
way to accommodate another’s schedule? Are you choosing to allow people to dump their troubles on you? Are you choosing restlessness over resting?
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Where, my darling, are you choosing to withhold the goodness of life from yourself?
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Every time we choose to place something else or someone else as more important than ourselves and our values we choose from fear. We choose from a fear of rejection, abandonment, loneliness..
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This fear keeps hurting us in our life.
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We can choose to choose again.
We can choose Love. 🙏🏼
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What would it be like to choose every small or big thing in your life based on the knowledge that you are Love and that you have nothing to prove, no one to please?
What would be possible for you?
Where would you go? What would you do? Who would you be?
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#choose #choice #power #incharge #youareincharge #spiritjunkie #risesisterrise #soulpreneur #timetoshine #lightworker #lightworkersofinstagram #healersofinstagram #shinebright #spiritualbusiness #beyourown #beyourownboss #spiritualbusinesscoach

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Instagram post 17842514245730203 $Within each and every one of us lies the potential for a breathtaking life. . . One of purpose, meaning, love, connection and peace. One of joy and intimacy. . . Yet we withhold this magnificent life experience from ourselves because deep down we don’t believe we deserve it. . . Or we believe we would need to say goodbye to everyone who matter to us as they would surely reject us if we choose to fully say yes to ourselves and our powerful potential. . . So instead we play small. Instead we hide. Instead we settle. Instead we choose to experience a fraction of the joy, pleasure and happiness that is available to us if only we gave ourselves permission to receive it. . . All this we choose. . . The good news is that we can choose again. . . We can recognise that we “have chosen fear and that we can choose again, we can choose Love” as my beloved mentor Gabby Bernstein would describe it. . . This choice begins we stillness. This choice begins with solitude. This choice begins with turning down the noise on the outside world that keeps telling us how we should we or what we must do to belong, be right or worthy. . . Stillness is the birthplace of new choices. Choices born from Love. . . . . . . . . #stillness #choices #powerofchoice #chooselove #gabbybernstein #spiritjunkie #spiritjunkiemasterclass #soulpreneur #soulpreneurs #thepowerofnow #beach #lifecoach #spirituallifecoach #purposedrivenlife #purposedriven #superattractor #returntolove #radicalresponsibility #timetoshine #powerful$

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Saying yes to balance- that is - getting back into flow and making life-affirming choices in our lives - means saying no to things that don’t serve us.
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Things that don’t serve us are:
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🍁 Placing other people’s needs before our own (this is a biggie and comes in many guises and flavours)
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🍁 Situations and relationships where we don’t matter or matter less than the other person/ people .
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🍁 Situations where we try to please others to keep the peace, fit in or have a sense of belonging .
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🍁 Situations that are not in alignment with our values .
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🍁 Situations where we leave feeling emotionally, physically, mentally or spiritually drained .
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🍁 All situations where we place something or someone else’s value above ourselves .
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When we feel out of balance, often we have some kind of “should” or “must” that drives us, that lead us to say yes to the things on the list above.
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Shoulds” or “musts” all come from a fear of not being enough. .
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The things we “must” or “should” do are all things that our subconscious believes will make us feel “good” or “right” or “peaceful”.
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Nothing could be further from the truth. Soothing the “shoulds” and “musts” is a full time job that is depleting in itself. It leads us to rely on outside circumstances for a sense of peace, belonging or being ok.
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🍁When we embark on a journey home to ourselves, to the truth of who we are, we come to understand that the greatest peace can only come from saying yes to balance. Choosing balance is an act of self-love.
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👉Choosing balance means making friends with our No. It means de-cluttering our lives from drama, overwhelm, stress and resentment.
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👉It means clearing space for the wonderful new experiences,relationships and projects that are possible when we say yes to making conscious life-affirming choices that makes us feel good inside-out .
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